Sunday, April 13, 2025
It's been a consuming few days. Tommy and I butted heads again. It's incredible how quickly escalation can occur and how my approach or his can be similar in instigation and response. It honestly breaks my heart to go through conflict that might bring up childhood issues and subconscious fears. I appreciate that he made an effort to resolve things. I need to let him make his own choices about how much he takes on and not take his limited attention and impulse issues as personal slights. I also recognize that I wrote similar observations last time around. Sigh. Neither of us retains things very long. On another note, Jen and I started the day at Oak Meadow by reviewing the Bullet Journal practice. It's well aligned with my desire to find a better way to focus and remove the distractions of technology. I'm trying it and even did some aggressive housekeeping and mass deletion of reminders, which felt overdue.