I got a chance to talk to my lawyer. Still more 'bartering' under way but I'm not budging further. And I'm pissed off more than ever before at the audacity of entitlement and expectations. I can't wait to be done with this, and with her bullshit. On a positive note the kids came back and hung out. Tommy's been spending more time w/Laura on FaceTime and I am wrestling w/how to mange the appropriate boundaries.
I'm glad I'm seeing more and more of the absurdity of the divorce and how it's played out. If I could go back in time I'd change so much of how this is going but I can only look at this as a really costly learning experience.
I want to get the kids more engaged when they're here and will be setting some boundaries around screen time. Or enforcing them more.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. Whatever. Not a big deal to me, really, but it'll be a low key day and the day after will be one spent with friends and family.
Accomplishments: Meditation Mindfulness WorkFocus Cleanup Reading
I'm glad I'm seeing more and more of the absurdity of the divorce and how it's played out. If I could go back in time I'd change so much of how this is going but I can only look at this as a really costly learning experience.
I want to get the kids more engaged when they're here and will be setting some boundaries around screen time. Or enforcing them more.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. Whatever. Not a big deal to me, really, but it'll be a low key day and the day after will be one spent with friends and family.
Accomplishments: Meditation Mindfulness WorkFocus Cleanup Reading