Sleepless night again. My mind and anxiety were racing about Tommy's car, and the comments noted last night. And in particular, how Wendy/Mark were concerned about him taking Vinny to Chico. I got up early (out of bed, given I was up all night) and drafted a few talking points in advance of him getting up, hoping I would have an opportunity to be heard. He awoke and came out, saying he had been thinking about the car all night. I said "same" and asked him to consider a couple of points without shooting them down immediately. I made a few points about accidents, responsibility, risk, and how nothing that goes wrong suddenly was expected or would have been avoidable. He seemed to take it to heart. As of now, I think he's going to keep the car, but I think he's still thinking it over while also being enamored with it. He offered to take me for coffee, but I said we should get breakfast. He's still learning the finesse of a clutch. I ended up driving it home, and he said multiple times that I was better at it than he was, but that's because it's all I went for decades. I had a hectic work day and was blindsided by what seemed at first to be a conflict around roles and responsibilities. Some subsequent conversations surfaced a need to get a more robust line between the 'what/why' and how/when, along with a deeper inherent understanding of all the implications. I can do that if I can get out of managing dev-related needs in parallel. It's a challenge, and we'll hopefully talk more tomorrow and come to an agreement. I spent most of my day managing what was happening in meetings and takeaway action items but little time on anything else, so my night was all catchup. I expect more of the same tomorrow.