Three days have flown by and my obsession with managing tasks and completing things I start has collided with my propensity to think I can squeeze one more task in. So much has been "in motion" that it's all a blur. It's hard to remember this morning let alone three days ago. That was Wednesday. I recall having put some finish touches and efforts into preparing Tommy's room for his return, including working further through the items still at Matson. I also thought to and acted on drilling a hole for his TV cabinet/shelf power cords. Jen and I saw Lyle Lovett that night. I loved it, she enjoyed it, and we left in time to get to Pano before Tommy. He arrived around 10.25 pm and was pleasantly surprised. He gave me a big hug, said he missed us and was clearly thrilled that we had made the move. He repeated his gratitude and excitement for the next day or two and started working to set up his room. He bought some IKEA stuff and blinds and other things, much to my pleasure. It's still not clear what his next steps will be but for the moment him getting some counseling is my primary focus. Lauren's been adjusting well to the move as well, always up for doing things together. We've set up and are using the outdoor space far more than I could have imagined and significantly more than we did at Matson. The space just feels right, inside and out. It's a bit of a shock, a bit of a guilty pleasure, sad in retrospect that it wasn't enjoyed like this by Linda and I for all the time we spent here, and more than anything, simply calming. I managed to get a slew of other tasks managed this week including triaging and resolving WiFi thermostat issues by learning about and hooking up the Common wire, going to Kaiser and starting with a primary care physician that I really like, I sold more of the free weights, fixed the toilet flush issues in our bathroom, ordered and set up Lauren's mattress cover, and OMFG did I go at the rosemary by the driveway with a vengeance. I cleared that space to perfection. Every edge of the cement is visible and the trims are aligned. Over 1/2 was just under dirt and shrubs. I also got the KeyPoint account stuff managed and now have the kid's trust funds within my control. I will be dividing them and managing them independently. It's a pittance compared to the 401k inheritance but it's the only funds I can control and put towards education. Jen's getting more anxious about her job situation and that's bringing her down. I get that. I'd feel the same were the tables turned. I've been there. My hope is we can make the next 4-5yrs at good salaries but at the same time, I might not be here next year so that can impact your perspectives. Nothing is permanent.