Tough day. Tommy's attitude became unbearable. Jen/I discussed and she's ready to move out. Decided to tell him he should stay at Panorama until he can simply come live with civility. He can hate me/us but we can be civil. Told him, he argued every point no matter what, and implied I was abandoning him. Assured him it was not the intention, it was about a few days coming down from tensions and getting a break. He still clung to that misconception even in the face of my protest and clarification. High conflict disorder in full gear. FIgnthing for the right to fight. Tensions were high, he ended up coming to Matson then going to Extra Hour. Jen/I went on a planned date night regardless and we needed it. This year is likely to put us all to the test as we navigate the struggles ahead and as I've said often, we're by standers, Linda's the one with the hardest road ahead. We'll see how tomorrow goes. I'm gonna stear clear of any/all situations and just hope that some peace can come into play. We certainly all need it and only one of us isn't working to balance the load.