
When I dropped Tommy at his mom's this AM and said "see you later" I sorta figured it would be before the next formal custody change, and he was back here this afternoon. It's fine, but the tension and conflict between him and his mom is just so fucked up. It's a very hard path to navigate when it means not discounting his feelings while calling out his own role. It's truly ODD in nature. A few text grenades were tossed my way but I didn't engage beyond talking to him about it directly. I plowed through a work task (1password scrum) and I got most of it wrapped up. It was good being in the zone, but I want to setup more 1:1 with the team to just check in on how they're holding up. Craigslist people can be total flakes. I watched the 3rd and final "Silicon Valley The Hidden Story" shows and it was so amazing to see how an evolution I lived through and contributed to continues to evolve. I miss being in that, very much. I am so grateful to have been where I have, regretful in hindsight that I didn't realize it as fully, and hopeful that whatever I do next might return me to that position again.