What can’t be said, because it won’t be heard, is that the only person who isn't handling this well, is her. Which in turn is making it far more difficult for everybody, including myself, the children and her. She and they need to put this in perspective and move forward in a positive fashion. It's been three years and more! The kids are fine with this, and she could be too. She may not realize it but she is dramatically contributing to a huge portion of their struggles. She has and will continue with this. And both kids have called it out.
